Stazlar
Psychic/Sensitive
This is a very short bio of me. I thought it be sweet to fill you all in on who I am and my history,That way when you talk to me you know my background.
I was born middle daughter of 3, in chicago, Illinois. My father was all polish, mother irish, french and english. I lived in Illinois all through my childhood. I would see and talk to people which were just as clear as you and I ,at about 5 years old. I didnt realise anything was wrong, I just assumed others could see them too. I also started having visions/premonitions at 5. My first was in preschool while on a field trip of the wagon ride we were suppose to go on crashing (another story). It wasn't until I tried to introduce my neighborhood friend to two of the spirits and she couldnt see them ,that I realised something was wrong. Now a child doesnt truly understand death and at that time had never been told about ghosts so I had no concept of what was happening. All I know was I saw people no one else could see. My parents were not supportive and laughed it off so there was really no one back then to talk to about my sightings. I became very private and secretive about seeing them and kept it all to myself thinking I was not normal. Now most psychics will tell you the seclusion, ridicule and isolation that comes with having this is painful. I suffered alot with it but learned to live with it in silence. If you ever watch "ghost whisperer" that is I, as an adult (not as often thou). "Psychic kids" ,was me as a child. I have been married twice, my first husband I could not have talk to, so I never revealed my secret to him. It wasnt til I remarried to a very sweet man the second time that I felt comfortable enough to tell him my secret and he has supported me ever since! Its the first time in my life been able to open up to someone who really cared and believed me. Now im making good use of my gift and helping people communicate with there loved ones on the other side. Also psychics come in handy during an investigation as they can sense or see when a picture should be snapped and in what direction! Also what mood the spirit is in and perhaps what questions should be ask by investigators. Oh, I still come across those that don't quite believe me ,but its all well and good. I'm proud of myself and what I have been given and no matter what anyone says or thinks I stand firm on my special gift and stay proud.
BEING A PSYCHIC...
Being a Psychic has its own quite pronounced trials and tribulations attributed to that profession. No matter how a Psychic ,medium or sensitives delivers their visions or readings you always come across the" Skeptics", which are the ones that no matter how much you tell them in facts they still dont believe. The "Users", ones who abuse your talents and expect you to give them readings of their whole life and everything that was ever said or done by their lost loved one. The "Unrealistic ones" that think just because your a psychic you should know everything! Now ,if any psychic can do that let them step forward! They would win every lottery, stop every crime before it happens and predict every disaster that could befall upon us! Now, I personally do not know of anyone who KNOWS everything and if they do, they could not be human.
To all who do not understand the world of a true psychic or sensitive let me clarify the facts for you.
It is a truly painful process since childhood, for those who retain this natural ability.
Its full of fear, tears ,indifference and solitude. It takes years of ghostly sightings , visions which play like a movie and/or very spontanious premonitions of future events that could pass. Its not knowing, when or how a vision could present itself. Its the very spontanious and spaced sightings of a spector or apparition. Theres no ryme or reason behind any of it. You just know when it happens and when it passes. Therefore ,you do not know everything at any given moment. Key word here is" Spontanious".
So for all you people who need readings or want to hear from a deceased love one , I say to you, be patient with the psychic, Respect what they are able to do and that they can NOT give you unlimited imformation. Also realise that being a psychic and giving you a reading does not mean they want to waste their time doing so, just so you can be testing them to their authenticy. Im not giving readings to be tested on my abilities. I do it because I care to help you. You all have the capabilities, to do exactly what i can do, but most do not know how to use that side of their brain. In some cases it needs to be self taught so your inactive part of the brain will be stimulated to be more pyschic aware in nature. As you all know a good portion of our brain we do not utilize (use) of which is our Pysche. In some cases, unknown to science, some are born with that part of their brain functioning. This in fact is natural ,as our brain has that capability and was meant to perform for that purpose, as intended. I think our reason for not escalating enough in life ,to utilize that brain function is because of us. We build this safety zone of perception and don't venture past it. All we can see and feel, is in our "safety zone" and we fear venturing to far into the unknown,which causes a block on our pysche. If mankind could get over this hurdle, future generations of man, may be able to be born with that side of their brain fully functioning. I truly believe,personally, that our genes and DNA ,bare the fruits of our emotions ,the most extreme being of fear. As for me, my visions come in pictures,or play like a movie . Most are of feelings or I may pick up deceased loved ones emotions. Listen to what I give you.
Decipher what it could mean and value the time i give to you with respect.
Most of all psychics/sensitives are not perfect. We can make mistakes but be open to the honesty of a psychic making a mistake. We see ,feel so much it can get confusing at times.
Being a psychic can be one of the most misunderstood occupations.
We are not super beings who can decipher everything and know everything, we are human beings with a very spontanious talent. Sometimes a deceased love one will reach out to us for help to communicate to you, or sometimes they just need guidance to pass and are confused or lost. They can be a host of confusing emotions and a run of on going questions. We can become just as lost as them, trying to decipher what they are telling us and it takes time to work it out.
So please respect our abilities and appreciate our efforts to help you, with a greater knowledge of what we go through and please use much understanding and patience, when we read..
Thankyou,
Stazlar
Psychic/Sensitive
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